Moving Beyond Self-Doubt

Instead of giving Lars advice on how to draw a house, hit a ball, or build a tower, what if I first asked him what he thought he should do next? Or what if I asked him how I could help him? And if he answers he doesn’t know, maybe I can tell him I am happy to help and here is an idea or two for him to think about. Maybe this will help him develop faith in his abilities and trust that other people enjoy contributing to his success.